{"id":235417,"date":"2022-01-22T17:38:31","date_gmt":"2022-01-22T17:38:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/isbg.eu\/eunew\/?p=235417"},"modified":"2025-01-25T16:31:15","modified_gmt":"2025-01-25T14:31:15","slug":"personal-swot-analysis-dont-let-anybody-else-to-define-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/isbg.eu\/eunew\/2022\/01\/22\/personal-swot-analysis-dont-let-anybody-else-to-define-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Personal SWOT analysis – don`t let anybody else to define YOU"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Personal SWOT analysis<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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No right answer!?<\/strong><\/h3>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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Have you ever experienced it? May be often than you think.<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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This situation is designed to make you wrong whatever of the obvious choices you choose and foolish you. This is I would say another form of gaslighting and I would like to give more clarity as it is spread largely leaving people with damaged self-esteem, lives while making a profit for the people that do it.<\/p>

Very often both form gaslighting and the drama triangle are combined and the abuser in the triangle is using gaslighting to make the victim hopeless (without a good future without them).\u00a0Learn more about them here<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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They start by attacking the way you see yourself. You might even don`t understand it because it could start with great feedback for something that is not quite great but it`s good to believe it. So why not? It feels so good (here I am not talking about genuine feedback). This is the point where they will gain your trust and shortly after will come the bad one if you don`t want to follow the right direction.<\/p>

Second phase: No right answer.<\/strong><\/p>

Whatever you do is wrong even it`s not. But you already believe those people that glamorized you so you should listen to them and do what they want from you. If not we are coming to the rescuer that appears in order to save you, build you again, and bully you again if you are not following their desires. Like this, a lot of people are blocked in the circle of manipulation and mental violence that control their lives. They try to put shame on people for the things that they actually do to them and people are afraid to talk about this.<\/p>

I want to give you some examples so you will be able to understand better.<\/p>

Example 1:<\/p>

Question to politician: The previous political party said they will take to jail a specific group, person, criminals, who you will put in jail?<\/p>

Any of the obvious answers is wrong. Yes, even if say who deserves it. Why? Because is not their job to put somebody in jail they have to build them a fair system that has to do this.<\/p>

Example 2:<\/p>

A call to the fair fighting team to help for moving a paralyzed person for medical treatment. If they do it is wrong because it`s not their job to do it. If they don`t the person could die. So it`s good that they had helped but the right answer is where is the support for those people.<\/p>

Example 3:<\/p>

In the workplace. Your boss is out of the office but there is a sudden important visit or a colleague come to you with a request to help for something that is not your job. If you denied your boss will blame you that you are an unsupportive team member and you don’t think of the company. If you help then they will blame you that this is not your job and it`s not done well, or you mess up everything even if you don`t.<\/p>

Example 4:<\/p>

They gave you work out of your scope but when a colleague comes to you with a related problem they blame you that you are a schemer or a gossip. If you don`t take it into account then again is bad because you are not performing the work.<\/p>

Example 5:<\/p>

A connection asks you for money or it could be a charity organization. If you refuse you will be defined as coldhearted and you lack humanity. If you help you could be scammed. You can ask for their registration and ask them to raise funding on the specialized platforms for such activities.<\/p>

Example 6:<\/p>

You are in a situation where you need something but the choices you have will only bring more problems. In other words, you will be fooled if you try but also if you don`t. So the solution is a third choice. Depending on the case it will be different but one thing is sure neither to try nor to not try will be good for you. In such cases stick to your core values and what is right.<\/p>

Another method of manipulation is to promise you something with many conditions to please and when it will happen it`s not clear.<\/p>

Don`t stay a victim of such a violent circle. Take control of your life.<\/p>

HOW?<\/strong><\/p>

KNOW YOURSELF!<\/strong><\/p>

MAKE A SWOT ANALYSIS OF YOURSELF<\/span><\/strong><\/p>

Straights:<\/strong><\/p>